And those who believe they “have” it may benefit from a rude awakening . . . or may not, depending on how tightly they cling to control.

During a presentation on spirituality a woman rose and said:  "I have no need of these practices.  I feel spiritual all the time without doing anything."

Reb Yerachmiel looked at her for a moment and said:  "The next time you have an urge to be spiritual, take a cold shower.  Then dry off and do something kind for someone else."